Courses & Retreats

Foundations for Healing

$97 Now only $37!

Befriend your body, calm your mind, and feel safe enough to open your heart Simple practices over time change our lives. These skills are designed to find comfortable approaches to compassionate healing. Self-paced & self-study so YOU decide WHEN and HOW MUCH to dedicate to this online course.

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Becoming Safely Embodied Online Self-Study Course

One payment of $497
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3 Payments of $173 (total $519)

Unlock your healing potential through simple, practical, skills that will reorganize what doesn't work, giving you more room for what you want.

Love Compass

Usually $149

now 36% off at only $95!

Finding YOUR Love Compass is an integration of my teaching, writing, and endless quest to support you in having relationships that help you grow, develop, and flourish in your life.

Conflict & Repair

$45

In this two-hour RECORDED Experiential Retreat with Deirdre Fay and Jack Rotondi, we focus on:

  • Conflict & Repair Self-Assessment: Recognizing our own patterns in dealing with conflict
  • The Benefits of Conflict
  • Threat System Activation & Boundaries
  • When, Why & How to Repair
  • True Repair: How to NOT get Hooked when the other person is Triggered
  • AND an opportunity to practice these skills in a safe community

Foundations of Psycho-Spiritual Living

$34

It's the process I've been in al my life integrating spiritual direction in the Christian tradition, living in a yoga ashram for 6+ years, long-term meditation retreats over the past 40 years, and the many years of my Sufi practice. That, combined with my training in psychotherapy, trauma treatment with Bessel van der Kolk, Janina Fisher, 13 years of weekly attachment training with Daniel Brown, PhD, my studies with Richard Schwartz & Internal Family Systems, Paul Gilbert's Compassion Focused Therapy, Chris Germer & Kristin Neff's Mindful Self-Compassion .a l this and more resulted in this integration .

Cultivate Self-Compasson Recorded Retreat

$297

There are 4 fundamental components that can give you a life free from triggers, reactivity, hopelessness, and isolation. They help rewire circuits in your brain so you can access your own wisdom to grow, develop & flourish. Of those, there's one that allows us to cultivate solid inner ground. That one is self-compassion. And that's what this 2.5-hour recorded retreat is focused on.

Developmental Task of Becoming an Adult

$99

The child’s developmental task is to get value, worth and a sense of self, from the outside, from caring others who help instill it. When that doesn’t happen sometimes we feel an internal hole. Something is missing. A different developmental task emerges for adults: that of listening to our needs, wants and longings. This online, self-paced workshop blends text, audio and video to explain what that adult task is and how to navigate it. Included is a 30-minute audio clip from my book Attachment-Based Yoga & Meditation for Trauma Recovery: Simple, Safe, and Effective Practices for Therapy.

BSE Essentials

$197

BSE Essentials: all the core videos and select handouts from the full BSE course, at a discounted price, to help you shift out of triggered patterns and train your body, mind and heart to have the life you want to have instead of the one your trauma has engraved in you.

The 4 Superpowers to Dissolve Shame

$250

In this RECORDED retreat and ONLINE course, you'll:

  • Learn how to dissolve shame with the power of compassion 
  • Transform neediness into secure vulnerability 
  • Transform shame triggers into accessing your inner guidance 
  • Discover how to transform possibility into reality 
  • Provide an opportunity to go even deeper in a safe community 
  • And so much more

Integrative Approach to Healing Trauma

$17

This downloadable audio talks about the three dynamic tasks at play for the therapeutic relationship to help the client.

Opening the Heart Online Workshop

$157

This recording of a live webinar Deirdre gave supports people in making the transition from thinking about life to a different orientation, one where the center of gravity is the heart.

What Others Are Saying

Thanks for the training!

Thanks for your books and courses that fuel my training, powering a continual stream of inspiration. I recently used some of the exercises from them with a couple clients. They were great! I'm now having clients come back more steady. Ready to engage more fully in their own therapy. 

Janet Thorpe

Wow. Just...WOW.

I'm revisiting practices from a recent retreat I did with you and wow. The power of it didn't fully hit me until now. Doing the exercise again dropped the disturbance immediately and dramatically. I'm busy sharing it with all my clients! Thank you. I cherish that you have given me tools to assist me on the journey of healing. 

Marla Anatoli

  ""Deirdre Fay is the real deal. Her compassion and steadiness radiate and heal simply by being. In addition, the practices she's created are inspired, deep, simple to learn, and highly effective. It's no small feat in our world to heal, and earn secure attachment and safe embodiment. Deirdre has both fiercely and gently carved out that path, and guides us all down it -- truly embodying the bodhisattva. Deep gratitude to you, Deirdre, and excitement for more learning in the years ahead!" -Mary Hartley Platt Zen teacher http://enteringthestream.co 

Expressing my gratitude

Wanted to take a moment to express my gratitude for these courses. You've introduced us to some great tools that really work for me. It seems you have scanned the worlds of psychology, spirituality, neurology, etc. and have mined that which is most helpful for healing to create this wonderful toolbag. I am very grateful that you have chosen to share it with all of us. Especially because you are such a living embodiment of the work! I could hear and feel your presence and kind attention on the calls, coming from your heartfelt center. It's what I've been aspiring to for so long. So you are inspiring!

Arlene Santos

What I do with your audios...

Quick note of thanks! I have your audios in my itunes, so I just let them continue playing, one after the other, listening as I work, as I drive around. It's a really good way to stay centered in what I want to do, who I want to be. I pause what I'm doing and do the small practices -- and then get back to what I was doing, more grounded, clear, and able to focus. I should also add that my husband is really grateful to you as well! He's seeing the impact this work as on me and how I be with him. Best help I've had yet! Thank you!!!

Kim and Adam

Hi there, I'm Deirdre 

If you ask me what I love doing, I’ll tell you it’s transforming the theory of healing trauma and attachment wounds into engaging, practical, step-by-step tools for you to enjoy being in your body and in your life. I love creating from the heart. Plus, I'm always integrating what I learn from you to develop new content. Seeing you grow, develop and flourish allows me to experience the world becoming a better place. One step at a time, we'll all get there!